Who Gets the Final Say—God or People?

Short Answer: God should always have the final say. While wise counsel has value, God's direction brings clarity, peace, and purpose that no human opinion can match. David’s story in 1 Samuel 23:2–4 offers a powerful example of what it looks like to follow God's lead, even when others express fear or doubt.

Why This Matters

We live in a world filled with opinions. Every decision—big or small—gets filtered through feedback from friends, family, social media, mentors, and even strangers. And while some input is helpful, too many voices can lead to second-guessing what God already made clear.

So how do you know when to listen to others—and when to trust that God’s voice is enough?

Let’s walk through an ancient story that still speaks to this modern dilemma.

What David Did When People Didn’t Agree with God’s Word

In 1 Samuel 23:2–4, David hears that the Philistines are attacking Keilah. His response? He asks God directly:

“Shall I go and attack these Philistines?” God answers: “Go and attack… and save Keilah.”

Simple enough. But David’s men—his closest advisors—respond with fear.

“We’re already afraid here in Judah… how much more if we go to Keilah?”

Now David is stuck between two opinions:

• God says Go.

• His people say That’s too risky.

What does he do?

He asks God again.

“Then David inquired of the Lord again.”God’s answer? Even stronger this time:“Arise, go down to Keilah, for I will give the Philistines into your hand.”

What This Teaches Us About Decision-Making

1. It’s okay to check in with God again.

David didn’t doubt God’s ability—he just wanted confirmation. In big decisions, this is wise. God is not annoyed by our seeking; He invites it. The key is returning to Him, not just returning to public opinion.

2. The loudest voice isn’t always the right one.

Fear can sound reasonable. The people weren’t trying to rebel; they were scared. But reasonable fear can still stand in opposition to God’s will. If we wait for everyone to agree before we obey, we might never move.

3. God's word doesn’t change based on people’s comfort.

God didn’t alter His instruction based on the people’s fear. He repeated it—this time with an added promise: “I will give the Philistines into your hand.” God doesn’t retract His commands. He reinforces them with truth and assurance.

Common Questions People Ask

Q: Should I ignore other people’s advice completely?

A: No. Proverbs 15:22 says, “Without counsel plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed.” God often uses people to speak wisdom into our lives. But when their advice contradicts what God has clearly said, His voice must win.

Q: What if I’m not 100% sure it was God’s voice?

A: That’s fair—and wise to consider. Ask God again. Test it against Scripture. Seek peace. God is not in the business of tricking you. He wants you to hear Him clearly.

Q: What if people think I’m foolish for following God?

A: They might. But obedience to God has always looked foolish to the world. Noah built a boat in the desert. Moses spoke to a burning bush. David ran toward a giant. You’re in good company.

Final Takeaway: God Gets the Final Say

People may mean well. Advisors can help. Emotions are real.

But when God speaks, obedience is our safest, strongest, and most successful path forward.

The next time you’re caught between public opinion and divine instruction, remember what

David did: He paused. He prayed again. He followed God’s voice.

You can too.

Peace in Christ,